is my piercing infected?

hello everyone! i am an extremely health paranoid person and each time it comes to my piercings i get very stressed when something doesn’t look right

i have pierced my lobe (third one) a little bit over a month ago and it was a little bit sensitive and irritated for the last couple of days. today i accidentally saw a fluid coming out of it and the fact that my first (that’s why it is still big) stud is not moving that freely anymore made me extremely anxious

i have already contacted the piercing place, but while waiting i wanted to hear opinions whether my situation is bad or i am getting dramatic and saline solution at home will help it to heal on its own? i also have a trip coming up in three days and it stresses me out even more…

thanks to everyone in advance <3