Can the ADHD girlies who were in toxic relationships but eventually learned to thrive in a healthy relationship please stand up?

I’m not gonna lie, Reddit keeps surfacing these relationship posts on my feed and every single one makes me think: “GIRL LEAVE HIM?!” but also “OMG THAT IS ME”.

What is it about our ADHD brains that makes it so easy for us to fall into toxic relationships where we give and give and give to men who are selfish assholes?

And can the women who were able to get themselves out of that loop please share your inspirational story with the rest of us because it is ROUGH out here and I don’t know how to heal 😭