What are "not so"obvious sign that ur partner doesn't respect or love u?

Like we all know obvious sign showed by partner that really doesn't love u..like no efforts, converting healthy discussions into arguments and so on..

But what are those signs that aren't talked mostly or isn't that obvious?? Idk if u all are getting what I meant... Sometimes people often give u hints that they aren't compatible with u ,but we kinda ignore it or don't see as obvious sign of failing relationship..what might be those?