Ukweli mimi sina time ya hizi michezo

You meet a lady, you both connect and vibe, she checks all boxes. Lakini shida ni moja, she hits you with that “I’m done being the understanding and compromising partner” phrase.

Mahn, I just check out completely afterwards I hear that. You know that Jose mourinho meme of him taking off the headphones? That’s me in that moment.

I don’t know what it is about those words but it just puts unnecessary pressure on me as the guy to live up to higher expectations and standards that the babes previous suitors were unable to meet.

I get that a relationships should be an exciting experience for both parties involved but what happened to things naturally escalating towards that?

It’s like meeting someone new for the first time and saying you’re dating to marry. That puts both of you under unnecessary pressure. It’s better to be intentional and let things head there on their own without forcing.

Also how comes other guys had the chance to experience the understanding and easy going version of you lakini when you meet me now that’s when you draw the line and things get serious and tough?

Madem wacheni hizo stuff tafadahli