Is ADHD Linked to Specific Kinks?

I’ve been wondering how much ADHD actually affects kinks and sexual preferences. I started thinking about it because all my friends with ADHD seem to have a specific kink—mostly BDSM. It makes sense since ADHD brains crave stimulation, novelty, and intensity, but I’m curious if others have noticed a pattern too.

For me, I’ve realized that certain things, like getting licked, don’t hold my attention for long—I get bored or distracted really easily. But fast-paced, intense, or high-sensation experiences keep me engaged. I’ve also noticed differences between men and women in how ADHD influences preferences.

Do you think ADHD plays a role in shaping kinks and turn-ons? Have you noticed anything similar in your own experiences? I’d love to hear different perspectives!